The Abuse We Still Don’t See 

CW: Rape, Neglect, & Abuse

A recent investigation from The Washington Post brings to light a truly unsettling situation: a 24-year-old woman with severe disabilities was found to be pregnant, revealing months of sexual abuse while she was living in a state-run group home in Maryland. 

Kamryn Jones, who lives with cerebral palsy, intellectual disabilities, and is legally blind, was taken to a Baltimore hospital after her caregivers noticed she had abdominal swelling and was in pain. It turned out she was seven months pregnant. Since she is unable to consent to sexual activity, the staff concluded she had been raped.

As horrific as these allegations are, they also highlight a much bigger, often hidden problem: disabled people face abuse and exploitation at rates far higher than the nondisabled population. Sexual assault, for example, occurs seven times more often among disabled people compared to nondisabled people. That statistic alone should definitely stop anyone in their tracks.

Abuse and neglect appear to be particularly common in residential settings, where people rely on their caregivers for help with every aspect of their daily lives. This reliance creates a significant power imbalance, particularly when residents are unable to advocate for themselves or communicate clearly.

For many families, deciding to place a disabled loved one in a residential facility is a choice made with a mix of apprehension, and careful consideration. These facilities exist because some people need complex medical, behavioral, or physical support that simply can’t be provided at home. 

Families hope that trained professionals will protect their loved ones’ dignity, ensure their safety, and look after their well-being. When that doesn’t happen, the consequences are heartbreaking and last a long time.

Reports say that Jones needed around-the-clock care because of her disabilities. Yet, somehow, her pregnancy went unnoticed for months. The lawsuit her family filed claims that caregivers and medical professionals saw physical changes but didn’t investigate or raise any concerns. This doesn’t just show a single mistake, but rather a series of mistakes. And, sadly, this isn’t the first time the rape and pregnancy of a disabled woman have captured national attention.

Back in 2019, a nurse at a long-term care facility in Arizona sexually assaulted a woman who was in a minimally conscious state, which led to a pregnancy. The crime only came to light when she gave birth. DNA evidence showed that Nathan Sutherland a nurse was the perpetrator. He was later arrested and charged. That case really showed just how vulnerable people are—even in places meant to protect them.

These cases, force us to grapple with some uncomfortable, yet crucial, questions about how residential care facilities truly operate. How can critical warning signs be missed for such a long time? Why aren’t vulnerable people protected, even when they’re supposedly under constant supervision? And how many similar situations never even get discovered?

Disabled people often experience challenges that make it much harder to detect and report abuse. Some can’t communicate. Others depend entirely on their caregivers to survive. In these circumstances, abuse can stay hidden unless staff members are well-trained, alert, and diligent.

Beyond individual facilities, the broader system for oversight is often lacking. A facility may technically meet certain standards on paper yet fail to provide real protection. Inspections might not happen very often. Reporting channels can be slow and tangled in bureaucracy. And holding people accountable often becomes difficult when multiple agencies are involved.

Protecting disabled people requires more than just assuming that licensed facilities are safe. It requires strong oversight, comprehensive training, independent monitoring, and immediate intervention whenever warning signs appear. It also means creating systems that support families and independent advocates to step in when something feels wrong.

Most importantly, it means acknowledging that disabled people deserve the same autonomy, dignity, and safety as everyone else. Their disabilities should never mean they are overlooked. When care fails, the impact isn’t abstract. It is deeply personal and human.  It requires immediate accountability. 

Sources:

Hermann, Peter, and Dan Morse. “They Thought Their Disabled Daughter Was Safe. A Pregnancy Revealed Her Rape.” The Washington Post, WP Company LLC, 5 May 2026, http://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2026/05/05/disabled-woman-rape-pregnancy-maryland/.

Romo, Vanessa. “Nursing Home Launches New Investigation after Woman in Vegetative State Gives Birth.” NPR, NPR, 15 Jan. 2019, http://www.npr.org/2019/01/14/685377950/nursing-home-launches-new-investigation-after-woman-in-vegetative-state-gives-bi.

Shapiro, Joseph. “The Sexual Assault Epidemic No One Talks About.” NPR, NPR, 8 Jan. 2018, https://www.npr.org/2018/01/08/570224090/the-sexual-assault-epidemic-no-one-talks-about.

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